Category: women

  • This is not a test!

    These last few weeks have been topsy-turvy. The highs and lows of life as a woman, mother, student, daughter, and Jesus follower. How does one really deal with the emotionality of it all? Sometimes it is just by listening to Skillet at top volume (and dancing), and other days it is gritting my teeth and…

  • Truth or manipulation?

    “I tell women that they are beautiful as a form of manipulation”, my friend confesses to me this morning. “I don’t mean it, because it doesn’t matter to me, but I know it’s a form of control. I want to confess this to you, because Jesus has been showing me that as long as the…

  • 10 things I learned about myself…in women’s ministry.

    These last 9 months I have been privileged to serve in the ladies ministry program at our church.  It was a schooling that I didn’t expect. 10 things I learned about myself…in women’s ministry. 1.   I am not as spiritual as I pretend to be.  Yes, we can have a spiritual “look” about us,…

  • Women of Today (part 6)

    I need nothing but Jesus. He is the only reason I live and breathe on this earth.  I will be spending eternity with Him in heaven, and there is nothing on this earth that I will need with me…!!  Nothing!  I don’t need to be pretty, rich, famous, or smart. I just need Him! My…

  • Woman of Today (part 5)

    How can we change the system that is part of the very DNA in our culture? There is only 1 answer. That is Jesus! Two thousand years ago He came onto this earth.  He went against the very culture of His day.  He had women as disciples, women spreading the news of the resurrection, women…

  • Woman of Today (part 4)

    So where does it come from? I believe it goes back to the day we were created.  The devil comes after the woman, tempts her, and God tells the two of them that they would be enemies forever.  Genesis 3:15 says, “And I will cause hostility between you and the woman, and between your offspring and her…

  • Woman of Today (part 3)

    No wonder we try to get our power through our appearance, because that is the only place we feel like we have any control.  We can “control” men and their appetites when we look like an ageless porn star.  After all, that is what we are conditioned to believe our worth is, and that is…

  • Woman of Today (part 2)

    Over the last 50+ years we have been indoctrinated by pornography.  Playboy, Penthouse, Hustler…etc…if you’re old enough you might remember those “hidden” magazines that one had to make a real effort to buy and look through; well they just look tame compared to what we have accessible now.  If anything, our normal evening line up…

  • Woman of Today (Part 1)

    At the age of 10 I received a compliment from an older man, he must have been in his 30’s or so, and it changed me from the inside.  I realized quite quickly that I had “something” that men would notice, and it would give me power.  Looking back, I can see that what he…